Dealing with Divorce Catch-All
So... yeah. That is happening.
She had been spending a lot of time out of the house. I, honestly, thought that was healthy. Have some time together, some time apart.
Apparently, this wasn't enough for her, and now she sees me more as a brother she comes home to that is very kind and considerate.
And... I don't know what to do. I called my mom, made arrangements to move back in with her. We've already started splitting up the stuff. Got some more of that to do... but as far as I am concerned, I don't care about the house (it is in her name, but it really is her grandmother's house... damn, I am really gonna miss that sweet old lady).
I have to go to work tomorrow... and I feel like I am having trouble remembering how to breathe and put one foot in front of the other.
How the hell do you deal with the first day after the person you have loved unconditionally tells you she wants out?
All I want is for her to be happy, so I'm going as soon as I can make the arrangements to do so.
I'm making the plans, and got a few things planned for when I am out. Some things to work on for myself... but all I can think is, why haven't I woke up yet? This has to be a bad dream... even though I know it isn't.
Any advice from any fellow Goodjers who have been through this?