F*** You, Cancer! Catch all

mudbunny wrote:

f*ck.

Just as my dad finds out the margins of his surgery are clean, my wife's mother gets taken to the hospital, and we are told "bring [her son] by. It's not likely she will ever be going home again" and "without a biopsy, we can't say anything, but the MRI of her liver shows it is incredibly enlarged and she has spots in her lung and liver as well."

f*ck.

f*ck indeed. So sorry man.

That sucks.

mudbunny wrote:

f*ck.

Just as my dad finds out the margins of his surgery are clean, my wife's mother gets taken to the hospital, and we are told "bring [her son] by. It's not likely she will ever be going home again" and "without a biopsy, we can't say anything, but the MRI of her liver shows it is incredibly enlarged and she has spots in her lung and liver as well."

f*ck.

Good gawd.

This is the future waiting for me and my parents in the coming years and I don't even ........

Really sorry to hear that news.

“You need to get your brother and come to the hospital ASAP.”

F*ck

mudbunny wrote:

“You need to get your brother and come to the hospital ASAP.”

F*ck

Damn that's rough to hear. I'm so sorry for your family.

I'm so sorry to hear this, mudbunny.

mudbunny wrote:

“You need to get your brother and come to the hospital ASAP.”

F*ck

f*ck man, so sorry.

And they switched to palliative care. My wife is preparing a bag for the night and will be sleeping there while I’m at home with the girls.

Your family is in my thoughts, mudbunny.

Really sorry to read this mudbunny. Wishing you and your family strength to get through this; you guys have really been through enough.

RIP Francine Paris.

So sorry. Please let us know if we can be of any support.

I'm sorry, mudbunny. If I may quote you : FUUUUUCK.

Thanks for the well wishes all.

It was quick, and she is out of pain now.

It's complicated by the fact that, for a good part of my wife's adult life, she was basically no-contact with her mother...

Well, damn, sorry mudbunny.

We're sorry for your loss and your wife's loss mudbunny.

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So sorry mudbunny.

Sorry for your loss

It's complicated by the fact that, for a good part of my wife's adult life, she was basically no-contact with her mother...

Really sorry to hear that mudbunny. My mother was pretty no nonsense and I always like to see the other side of things. So we but heads a lot growing up.

But something that helped me with that after she passed was to take a page from her book and look at something in my life that seemed important but ultimately was filled with a lot of nonsense. So I chose to quit facebook in her memory

I know you and your wife are hurting right now and the last thing you need is advice, but something like that can close the loop and be cathartic.