I am VERY confused... *Demos Dating Thread!*

Alien13z wrote:

She's got doubts about her boyfriend and is in the process of switching over to someone new. Fill the gap!

Shoot the gap for a x2 multiplier!

See the starts
They're shining bright
Everything's alright tonigh

Legion, are you by a chance Russian or something?

Hey, can we merge this with my thread? I think a could learn a few things from Demos (*sigh*).

I suggest we have a stickied 'Gamers With Dates' thread.

So what game is this from?

I'll throw something new out for you to consider Demos. Why not just ask her if the 'BF' meant boyfriend? How hard can it be? Text msg it to her if you are embarassed asking her directly. Most women appreciate a man who is direct and isn't afraid to speak his mind. If she says she has a boyfriend, great, your cool with just being friends. If she doesn't, even better, you've got yourself a date.

There is no reason to be confused here. Ask her!

"Her BF is calling?"

You're fine. So she's an avid Battlefield player. This is a plus in my book.

Sanjuro wrote:

It's time to put Demos out of his misery. Who's gonna take him to the vet?

The karmic implication of this option should be considered very carefully. He just might re-incarnate into something even more f-ed up.

Why not just ask her if the 'BF' meant boyfriend?

Seconded. Would be my way too.

FeralPug wrote:

You're fine. So she's an avid Battlefield player. This is a plus in my book.

I was going to say the same thing. I figure she's probably working for her first weapon unlock.

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Why not just ask her if the 'BF' meant boyfriend?

Seconded. Would be my way too.

/agreed

I would just use the line - 'So, your boyfriend won't mind us hanging out and talking about {insert topic here]'. If she says no, then you know you are just a friend thing, if she laughs and says she meant Best Friend, you two can laugh it off and the plethora of Demo's Dating Threads about this chick can commence.

phragged wrote:

Maybe by bf she didn't mean boyfriend and this all a horrible misunderstanding.
BF could mean anything.
Bad Ferret?
Bomb Fuse?
Borg F***er
Barely clothed but willing and supple Female soriority sister?

I can safely say that BF does not stand for me.

The proper way to handle this is to hunt down "BF", unsheathe your sword and scream "There can be only one"

This shouldn't alter your plan of seduction one little bit, Demo.
Just stay the course, you hear me?!?

STAY THE COURSE!

this is all very confusing to me..

1. Perhaps I'm the only one but this was perfectly normal when I went to College. At this age going on Dates, Parties, Dinners with various girls in various stages of relationships was perfectly normal. There was a very lose concept of Boyfriend/Girlfriend and with good reason! Why on earth would one assume that a simple dinner with a girl who is 18 or 19 years old means an instant monogamous realtionship?? or that she is interested in such a thing.

2. At your age thats the last thing you want to be doing... just go with it.. see where it leads.. if it means you have sex with her for a few weeks and then move on then great.. enjoy it and have fun.. thats what College and youth is about... not trying to find your life partner.

3. Bang as many chicks as you can.. because once you get married (and lets face it a few years before that assuming its not a shotgun wedding) your going to be banging the same chick.

4. IM with girls has to be the most stupid thing the Internet age EVER brought about.. nothing beats face to face conversations.. because lets face it.. if your not in the same room with a girl.. talking..flirting..perhaps drinking/smoking then your never going to get that unexpected piece of ass.

4. IM with girls has to be the most stupid thing the Internet age EVER brought about.. nothing beats face to face conversations.. because lets face it.. if your not in the same room with a girl.. talking..flirting..perhaps drinking/smoking then your never going to get that unexpected piece of ass.

Well, if you count cybersex then I'm a slu..er..forget I said anything...

Oh, Yeller...

Copingsaw wrote:

There is no reason to be confused here. Ask her!

What the... But that would clear everything up! What will I read then?

TheGameguru wrote:

4. IM with girls has to be the most stupid thing the Internet age EVER brought about.. nothing beats face to face conversations.. because lets face it.. if your not in the same room with a girl.. talking..flirting..perhaps drinking/smoking then your never going to get that unexpected piece of ass.

In my experience, totally untrue man. There's lots of "dates" to be set up by an IM.

In my experience, totally untrue man. There's lots of "dates" to be set up by an IM.

could be... the whole IM thing was after my prime as a single.. so I may not be grasping the whole IM dating thing.

Still I'd much rather be with a girl than IM'ing a girl.

Copingsaw wrote:

Most women appreciate a man who is direct and isn't afraid to speak his mind.

Also, most poker players appreciate it when other players give away what's in their hands. She doesn't know for absolute certain yet your level of interest in her - finding this out will affect her attraction to you.

Be cool Demos, be cool!!

I like karmajay's idea:

karmajay wrote:

'So, your boyfriend won't mind us hanging out and talking about {insert topic here}'.

and there is a FAQ! Google for "lay-girl.txt". I won't link here cuz Im not sure if I'd be breaking forum rules.

GG wrote:

1. Perhaps I'm the only one but this was perfectly normal when I went to College. At this age going on Dates, Parties, Dinners with various girls in various stages of relationships was perfectly normal. There was a very lose concept of Boyfriend/Girlfriend and with good reason! Why on earth would one assume that a simple dinner with a girl who is 18 or 19 years old means an instant monogamous realtionship?? or that she is interested in such a thing.
2. At your age thats the last thing you want to be doing... just go with it.. see where it leads.. if it means you have sex with her for a few weeks and then move on then great.. enjoy it and have fun.. thats what College and youth is about... not trying to find your life partner.
3. Bang as many chicks as you can.. because once you get married (and lets face it a few years before that assuming its not a shotgun wedding) your going to be banging the same chick.

There's a reason why we call him 'guru'... Listen to him; he speaks wisely.

Mex wrote:

In my experience, totally untrue man. There's lots of "dates" to be set up by an IM.

Yeah, with psycho kidney thieves with bady body images, if I remember correctly.

3. Bang as many chicks as you can.. because once you get married (and lets face it a few years before that assuming its not a shotgun wedding) your going to be banging the same chick.

Its these pearls of wisdom that make GWJ more than just a gaming web site. You will never get this kind of sage advice from Dr. Phil or his ilk. Not only that but Guru's message is a good one: Respect the sanctity of marriage but gain valuable life experience first.

Yoyoson wrote:

...and there is a FAQ! Google for "lay-girl.txt"...

Out of curiosity, I looked this up. All I have to say is

Copingsaw wrote:

Respect the sanctity of marriage but gain valuable life experience first.

If she catches you in bed with somebody else, just tell her you're not cheating, you're gaining valuable life experience. Bonus points if you suggest that you're quite close to leveling, and she does want you to be a better person, doesn't she?

Certis wrote:
It's time to put Demos out of his misery. Who's gonna take him to the vet?

Take him out behind the barn and you know... do that thing you do. Not THAT thing. The other thing... with the gun.

You're a man now, Sanjuro.

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< raises hand >

Razorgrin wrote:

Yeah, with psycho kidney thieves with bady body images, if I remember correctly. ;)

And big Bazongas! =D What's your point?

Well, for some reason, I asked. Good work guys, that's actually a lot of confusion off my mind. And, she's got a boyfriend of about 9 months right now. From what she said of him, he's a really nice guy...

And I think she's trying to set me up with her sorority sisters. Apparently our dinner thing just had a few lady friends from sorority who would like to meet me added in.

Is this an appropriate times for this smiley?

Demosthenes wrote:

And I think she's trying to set me up with her sorority sisters. Apparently our dinner thing just had a few lady friends from sorority who would like to meet me added in.

Ah...then it's the other variation of threesome. Much better.

I need the sh*t slapped out of me for posting in this thread, so form a line to the left, please. Here goes...

Man, Demos. If I had spent as much time as you do agonizing over whether someone likes me/doesn't like me or what they mean by A, B, or C, I'd be sitting in a padded cell right now, drooling and spewing out unintelligble babble.

You went out to dinner. That's it. And you were either left with the impression you'd like to see her again or not. If so, then you ask her out again. If she'd like to spend time with you, then she'll say yes. And even then, it's only a second date. If the BF comment bothers you, then ask her about it. It's that simple.

You're dating for cryin' out loud, not debating whether live the rest of your life with her. Go out and have fun and stop analyzing the sh*t out of every little thing. Some dates will lead to others and some won't. Just enjoy yourself. And if you manage to separate someone from their underpants in the process, then so much the better.

Just lighten it up, man!

Demosthenes wrote:

Well, for some reason, I asked. Good work guys, that's actually a lot of confusion off my mind. And, she's got a boyfriend of about 9 months right now. From what she said of him, he's a really nice guy...

And I think she's trying to set me up with her sorority sisters. Apparently our dinner thing just had a few lady friends from sorority who would like to meet me added in.

Is this an appropriate times for this smiley? :hump:

Panicked to soon, ay? The tables have turned...
Enjoy!

I say that in 10 years if Demos and 1Dgaf are not married, they move to MA and get hitched to each other.

slambie wrote:

I need the sh*t slapped out of me for posting in this thread, so form a line to the left, please. Here goes...

Man, Demos. If I had spent as much time as you do agonizing over whether someone likes me/doesn't like me or what they mean by A, B, or C, I'd be sitting in a padded cell right now, drooling and spewing out unintelligble babble.

You went out to dinner. That's it. And you were either left with the impression you'd like to see her again or not. If so, then you ask her out again. If she'd like to spend time with you, then she'll say yes. And even then, it's only a second date. If the BF comment bothers you, then ask her about it. It's that simple.

You're dating for cryin' out loud, not debating whether live the rest of your life with her. Go out and have fun and stop analyzing the sh*t out of every little thing. Some dates will lead to others and some won't. Just enjoy yourself. And if you manage to separate someone from their underpants in the process, then so much the better.

Just lighten it up, man!

You forgot "WRITE IT DOWN!...the end"