Drying Out (long-ish)

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This is not a joke.

After unsuccessfully attempting to eliminate the lingering ache in my head by reclaiming lost sleep, I've decided that I have to not drink for a while. Meaning: anywhere from one week to the end of eternity.

Now don't panic or anything. I've done this sort of thing before. I am a professional functioning alcoholic on a closed course. I know what I'm doing.

Still, this time it does feel as if I'm entering uncharted waters. I'm newly thirty, and I've been noticing that the old liver just ain't as good at its job as it used to be. To wit: I'm three days into this non-drunk and I already feel as if I'm on vicodin or something. I mean I feel really good. Rested, clear-headed (almost) and generally far more capable of dealing with things. This would be a good thing if it weren't for the fact that I do so love a good drink. Or, to be more precise, several good drinks one after the other.

Now I know from experience that this experiment will probably go on for one to two weeks, after which time I will resume a relatively safe consumption level of a drink or so a night peppered with the occasional bout of Good Ol' Southern-style drinking, and that eventually (probably around the time the holidays come back around) the Southern-style drinking will go from a once-a-month thing to a once-a-night thing, at which point I will feel the need to dry out again, etc.

Why this time is different, aside from the aforementioned triple-decade milestone, is that I'm seriously considering giving it up for good this time. Like I did with smoking a couple of years ago. Not sure why this is any of you all's business, but I suppose I could use a thoughtful bit of advice or two. Perhaps just some moral support.

Life after alcohol: better or worse? Discuss.

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Sounds like you need a drink, my friend.

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It''s all that Zelda...those flashing gems give ya headaches!

Seriously, good luck figuring out what works for you.

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How are you going to perform at Zombie Skate?

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"Lester_King wrote:
How are you going to perform at Zombie Skate?

Well that''s the real question isn''t it? We''ll find out tonight I guess.

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Dude, its hard to tell from your post if your truly hooked on the juice or not. If so, you need more help than you can get from us. If not, good luck finding a happy medium. There''s nothing wrong with alcohol, so long as you don''t let it screw up your life.

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Bagga was that friend in college who would talk you into skipping all your classes on Friday so you could get an early start on the weekend. I suspect he was also the guy who taught you how to use a beer bong. He never told you but he also carried a magic marker with him to parties in case you passed out on him.

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"Copingsaw wrote:
Dude, its hard to tell from your post if your truly hooked on the juice or not.

Good point. I should clarify.

I am not ""hooked on the juice.""

There.

My personal belief is that the word ""addiction"" is a liability parachute for people who can''t control themselves, or have no desire to. But that''s just me. Hello, I''m from Texas, how are you? I like to drink, but I have the ability and the will to not do so.

I'm not trying to be over-dramatic and paint a picture of sorrow, redemption and blah blah blah here. This has been a strange year, and I''ve tried to cope by drinking a lot, which worked after a fashion. Now I'm mostly through the bad time and trying to reassess. What I''m wondering is if anyone here has just walked away from it and how they feel that has worked for them.

I should also add that in all likelihood I will not do so, but stranger things have happened.

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I''m in the same boat Fletch. I''m 30 and I drink nightly. I''ve started realzing that the hangovers from the weekend, heavy drinking time, are leaking into the week.

I also do the dry out every once in a while. Its good for your body to catch up. In fact, this is usually the time I start running more and try to eat a bit better. In a way, I view it like I''m training for my next drinking run. Life is a marathon, not a race.

The funny thing is I''ve never understood how this kind of addiction works. It never affects work in any way. I only drink after supper and I still always get to bed at a reasonable time. Its one of my cheaper hobbies. I''ve never passed up a friend or gathering to drink. If I''m going somewhere that I can''t drink for a week it doesn''t bother me a bit.

Yet I have a few every night. More on weekends.

Some would call me a raging alcoholic.

Others would just call me consistent.

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I say if you feel like giving up drinking go for it. If you feel like drinking, do so in moderation or in spread out instances. Other than that I say just do what you think is best for yourself.

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Look at it this way, it sounds like you feel better when you don''t drink a lot, so why would you? Why did you give up smoking? I bet those same reasons apply in some way to excessive drinking.

I''m not abstinent from drinking or anything, I enjoy a couple of beers as much as the next guy, but probably only once a week when I''m out. But drinking every night and drinking to the point of drunkeness every weekend? I don''t think I could do it honestly, it''s just not for me. If you feel and probably look better when you stop doing something, why would you start it again?

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Am I addicted?

My grandfather is an alcoholic (before I was born he had already stopped drinking) and my dad was always worried about ending up the same way. He always said that one of the best things you can do is never drink when you''re unhappy, depressed or trying to escape something. It''s a good rule to follow I think, getting personal stuff sorted out is hard enough when you''re sober. It''s impossible when you''re always buzzed or drunk during the times when you could be sorting out your life.

I''m speaking in general terms here, no idea if this applies to anyone.

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Good point, LG.

I think the confusion on my end stems from the fact that the change in the residual effect that drinking has on me has been so gradual that I didn''t really notice it until recently.

I''ve been a heavy drinker since I was 18 or so (it''s a family tradition), but my recovery time has slowly gone from about four hours to about twenty-four. This is as shocking to me as erectile dysfunction would be (god forbid). I suppose it was enevitable, but shocking nontheless.

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"Certis wrote:
I''m speaking in general terms here, no idea if this applies to anyone.

I can quit any time, Certy. Get off my back!

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Excess in Moderation is my motto!

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"Copingsaw wrote:
Bagga was that friend in college who would talk you into skipping all your classes on Friday so you could get an early start on the weekend. I suspect he was also the guy who taught you how to use a beer bong. He never told you but he also carried a magic marker with him to parties in case you passed out on him.

Is it that obvious?
It should be noted that now I''m an upstanding citizen, with a wife and a four-legged baby. I have one or two drinks at night about 2 days a week, sometimes I get tanked on the weekends but that''s few and far between these days.

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Eh. Maybe I''ll just have a drink and think about it.

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It should be noted that now I''m an upstanding citizen, with a wife and a four-legged baby. I have one or two drinks at night about 2 days a week, sometimes I get tanked on the weekends but that''s few and far between these days.

I am in the exact same situation as bagga, but change the ""few and far between"" part to ""every or every other"". I really don''t know how often because I don''t pay attention, and some part of me would be shocked if I realized how often.

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I''m 31, and I definately don''t drink as much as I used to. I guess it just comes down to having other things to do with your time.

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I used to have about a beer a night, several beers on nights when friends were over. I''ve found, though, that since having a child and taking a job that requires me to be up before 6:00 a.m., I just feel better without that nightly beer. The upside is that now I get a wicked buzz after two beers, so getting drunk is much cheaper now.

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Moral support comin'' at ya. >squirt<

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I''m too southern to admit my age...but I will say that during my ""Hemingway"" years...I could drink. And I mean Drink. With a capital D. I knew almost nobody that could outdrink me...well, and not die.

As an example, a typical night out, before the duckling was born, would start with a couple of martinis, move on a bottle or two of wine with dinner, and finish with the better part of a bottle of 40 year old cognac. With that level of booze, I''m still completely functional. No word slurring, no additional clumsy factor...the only difference is that I knew better than to drive, because booze can make me fairly aggro and at the time I drove a car that would go 200 mph.

When I got pregnant, I had to give it up. Because, I''ve read Brave New World. Seriously, I knew better than to drink while preggers, or while breastfeeding. Once all that time had passed...ya know, the 150 year gestation period, and then the eon of breastfeeding, I just haven''t really started back up again...and probably won''t. (Damn, being a grown up sucks.)

The other day, I had 4 glasses of wine and was so toasty that I accidently sold my weapons in WOW. I decided that perhaps I''d lost my tolerance after all.

On the plus side, at least for the DuckiLama, I''m a much cheaper date now.

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Being in the Nav, i used to drink alot, all the time, even in foreign countries!

When I got out, after my single party phase, I eventually settled down and got a fine lady.

Well, I used to sit around on Friday nights on the computer, drink a 12 pack and have a good time. While I don''t get hangovers, I would definitely feel slower the next morning.

About 14 months ago I just asked myself ''Why am I still drinking?'' I''m not out partying or anything.

I like the taste of beer, so I started drinking O''Douls. Tastes like beer and it takes 10 beers to equal the alcohol in one normal beer.

I never looked back. Now I can drive anywhere and not have to worry, drink as much as I want at the home front (when you don''t have the alcohol in you, you don''t feel like drinking so much!). All around I''m much happier without it. And it still does not stop you from having a real drink every once in awhile.

(as an added bebifit, if you are single and at the end of the night you are one of the few guys actually speaking coherently at a club, your chances of picking up those end of the night girls are much better! )

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Life is short. I say drink whatever amount you''re comfortable with.
At least the ebb and flow of your alcoholic consumption is figurative and not literal.

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"DuckiDeva wrote:
a bottle of 40 year old cognac....
On the plus side, at least for the DuckiLama, I''m a much cheaper date now.

Yeah no kidding. Night Train, DuckiLama, get the girl on Night Train! Then you can finally afford that iPod!

My thing is that I''m kind of a foodie and a wine and beer and liquor snob. I just like cooking and eatinggood food, and I love good wine with good food. And I love good beer. And I love good whiskey. Enjoying these pleasures is something I really appreciate. So I guess for me the key is everything in moderation -- this includes excess and austerity...without one you could not appreciate the other.

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Bagga was that friend in college who would talk you into skipping all your classes on Friday so you could get an early start on the weekend. I suspect he was also the guy who taught you how to use a beer bong. He never told you but he also carried a magic marker with him to parties in case you passed out on him.
I wish guys like this would wear a shirt or some other identifying markings. Who knows what I could have accomplished in college if I were able to avoid them?

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Quantity and frequency of drinking don''t mean much to me, the real question is: Are you happy with the life you''re living? Do you have a job you like? How''s the social life? Friends? Girlfriend? Are you in good shape? etc... and is your drinking affecting any of this? If yes then you might wanna slack, otherwise everything''s fine.

Anyway, we don''t have to read you for long to know that you''re a very smart guy and I''m sure you know exactly what to do. It''s an interesting thread nonetheless.

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I say give it up, and send me all your beer and liquor...

I''ll be glad to ''watch'' it for you my friend...all of it!

And bagga, I think you and I hanging out in college would have flunked out !

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"Pigpen wrote:
And bagga, I think you and I hanging out in college would have flunked out !

Aww that''s too bad, we could have had some fun. As it was, I only took one extra class over the allotted 4 years, and graduated with a near-perfect 2.3 GPA. Genius!

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Probably not said in the right context, so forgive me. One of my buds in college had the line that he got from somewhere:

""AA is for quitters""

Sadly inspirational.

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